[T]he sexual relation cannot be written (ne peut pas s’écrire).

"Everything that is written stems from the fact that it will forever be impossible to write, as such, the sexual relationship. It is on that basis that there is a certain effect of discourse, which is called writing."

- On Feminine Sexuality, the Limits of Love and Knowledge: On Feminine Sexuality, the Limits of Love and Knowledge

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